The Promising Practices event on
November 5 at RIC was not what I was expecting at all. I had worked at 3am the
day of the conference, so when I got there I was a little bit grumpy and
expecting the worst. However, once I sat down with all of my classmates and got
to talking I relaxed a little bit. When the keynote speaker Robert Brooks
started his presentation I was overjoyed with his personality. He was very
engaging and put in jokes to his speech which made it a little bit funny while
still getting his points across. I liked hearing about his personal stories
which reflected his own experience building resilience in real life scenarios.
He spoke about when he was in college and realized that he wanted to switch
majors to psychology, and explained what a charismatic adult was.
A charismatic adult was someone,
like a teacher perhaps, who made an impact on your life that you’ll never
forget, whether they meant to or not. As soon as he started talking about his
psychology teacher in college and how he made him realize what his own passions
were I thought of a professor I had my first semester in college for my FYS.
This was a moment of learning for me because I realized how fortunate I was to
have an adult make such an impact on my life. This professor showed me that no
matter how nervous I got about school or my future that there was always
something to look forward to and always a way to control the outcome of a scary
situation. His class was a seminar on sports “scandals”, which was really
talking about SCWAAMP like issues
in the sports industry. Writing papers and doing presentations on these
topics were so easy to me because I enjoyed learning about the content and
sharing my new knowledge, and that was one of the first moments when I actually
felt like I was doing the right thing by starting my path to being an educator.
It’s a win-win situation where I can help other people by researching something
I enjoy and help them understand in new fun ways.
After
the keynote speech I went to my first session which was titled Using Transgender-Friendly Picture Books to
Build Resiliency, Understanding and Advocacy and was presented by Liz
Rowell. This workshop presented components of resiliency that are important to
work on with young children, especially those who are transgender, and how
picture books can promote other children’s understanding of and advocacy for
those who are transgender. I chose this session because of the latest class
discussion we had gone through in class which was on the August piece, Safe Spaces. This was a conversation
that I genuinely enjoyed having because I have many people in my life who are
involved in the Trans community, and I want to know how I can be there for them
and help them if they ever need it. I enjoyed this session because of how
passionate my presenter was. I could tell that she really wanted us to understand
the importance of using transgender picture books with young children, and even
some older. While she did have examples to show us, the sad truth is that there
are not
many transgender picture books in existence, let alone ones that are
available to schools and students. I am now aware of the benefits to using
these books with young kids and I can make conscious attempts to educate
people, young and old, about life as a Transgender male or female. This session
also briefly went into the topic of bathrooms and how hard that can be for
those in the transgender community. This discussion had me thinking about the
Zelle article 11 and Gender Fluid. Something
that is so simple to me like going to the bathroom can be scary to someone who
is transgender, and that is sad. There is such a simple solution to this
problem, making sure there are unisex bathrooms available along with men’s and women’s
bathrooms, but no one cares enough about the underrepresented T from the LGBT
community.

Overall I found that the Promising
Practices event helped me grow a little bit as an individual. It was good for
me to get out and listen to a speaker like Robert Brooks, who made me feel like
I was going to be okay no matter what. I enjoyed the social awakening that I received
from Liz Rowell, and the tips to help me stress from Susan Clark.